Some people have no love in their lives. They spend their time asking themselves when will they find a person to fall in love with and get married. Or why do my parents or family or friends not love me?
When it comes to love relationships, it is easy to find just a person but it is not easy to find the right person, the person that will love you as you are unconditionally, who can understand you and walk through this life with you.
I believe personally that God has a plan for our lives and in this plan He includes the right person for each one of us. The aim is to meet this person and to have the ability to recognise them.
Don´t think that every person is happy, in fact some appear to be happy but are not, every home has it´s own story.
Traditions, experiences, different backgrounds and different cultures all contribute to who we are and our expectations of love and life.
Relationships can be complicated and difficult but a successful relationship depends on each person making the decision EVERY DAY to choose the other one. Not to give up on the relationship, on the person they love or on themselves.
True love is when we know everything there is to know about the other person and we still love them.
But love can also fade away. Specially if we do not learn to mould ourselves into the relationship and consider the needs of the other person. Making a point of taking the focus of ourselves only and focusing on the other person too, helps us to build a successful relationship. That doesn´t just apply to love but also to friendships and family relationships.
To only pursue what we want without thinking about the happiness of the other person leads to failure in any relationship.
Having shared goals and dreams, as well as taking time to build good memories, makes relationships stronger.
Of course there are set backs and hard times, everyone makes mistakes. The important thing is to learn from those mistakes and not make the same mistakes again. Knowingly doing something that hurts the other person and causes damage to the relationship is not going to contribute to success.
Investing time in your relationship and in considering if what you are doing is helping your relationship stay strong or not, is the key to opening the door to success. A heart full of love is not enough if you don´t put time and effort into your relationship.
Invest time on focusing on the person you love, studying them again, learning about them like if you saw them for the first time and see the positive changes in them, in you and in your relationship.
Wishing a successful relationship and a heart full of love!
Beatriz & Mohammed
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