Give it a chance

 

How many times in life have we given up on something because it wasn´t developing or happening fast enough for our expectations? How many times do we stay in a job because it is what we know?

If you have a business it is really important to have patience and to invest time and effort into building it.

If your business is something you are passionate about you are more likely to invest your time into it. If your business is not something that you are really into, it can become a source of stress and bitterness.

It is the same with our jobs. If we are working in a place where we are happy and satisfied with our work then we are more likely to be successful in our careers. However if our job is not really what we want to do, then we start to resent going to work and it becomes a heavy load in our lives. Work life and home life.

I found myself at one point in a job that made me truly unhappy. I had no choice but to stay there in order to achieve a goal I had set myself and obtaining a much-needed qualification. I was so exhausted and broken at the end of the contract that I was ill for an entire month.

I had no choice at the time but to see it through and stay in that job, however I still can not understand the other people who worked there and were completely unhappy, why did they stay? I heard them day in day out complaining about the job, the other people working there and the bosses, but they stayed on and made no effort to find a new job.

One of them had been there for 17 years! Had no reason to stay there but was scared of change and something new. Blamed everyone for stayin in that job, including his ex-girlfriend but made no effort into looking at himself.

Being scared of starting a new job or finding a new work situation can really have serious negative consequences for someone´s health and wellbeing. But most importantly it can stop someone from achieving their full potential.

At the end of that job I was very scared of not finding another job or worse! I was terrified of going into a new job and finding the same frustrating and horrible situations I had lived in the job I had just left. But I made an effort to be positive about my work future.

Guess what? I was wrong. I did find a new job in a place where I fit in and am completely happy.

What did I take with me from my old job? well apart from looking about 10 years older I grew stronger and more assertive. In my new job, as soon as a similar situation to one I had lived in the previous job tried to arise, I dealt with it immediately in a positive way and resolved the issue right away without letting it become harmful to me.

If you find yourself today in a work situation that is driving you down, make a list of what you need to do to find a new job where you can achieve your full potential and be fulfilled and satisfied. If you don´t know in which direction to go then seek help and don´t be scared to start again.

Don´t leave till tomorrow, start today! Give it a chance!

Wishing you every success in your professional life!

Beatriz & Mohammed

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© 2018 Beatriz Custodio & Mohammed Al Ali

Making someone happy

There is a song I really like, the words go something like: “make just one someone happy and you will be happy too…”

Today I was really proud of Mohammed. He came over in the ambulance to the school where I work and allowed the little children to look at it and to look inside of it. With his big smile, kindness and patience he made a few children really happy.

I will never forget the children´s faces. One little girl looked like the sun was shinning out of her eyes and I have never seen her have such a huge smile on her face! I will always treasure today as one of the best moments of my life and as one of my best memories!

The little boys kept saying “wow!!!”

They had so many questions and couldn´t stop smiling and looking at everything with huge open eyes.

What an amazing experience for them on this Friday just before the school holidays! But it was also an amazing experience for Mohammed and for me. I think I was more excited than the children and it took me several hours to come down!

Of course it wasn´t the seeing the ambulance that was the highlight of my day but seeing how happy we had managed to make the children.

It made me realise that with a little thinking and working together we can make someone´s day and without intending it, we can make ourselves truly happy.

Think about it, maybe those words on the song are true!

With the weekend ahead and the October holidays already here, I fully intend to find as many chances as possible to make someone´s day. Not for what I get out of it but because making someone happy should be the highlight of any day.

Have a happy weekend!

All content and photos are the property of Mohammed Al Ali & Beatriz Custodio

© 2018 Mohammed Al Ali & Beatriz Custodio

Focusing on old German Architecture

Recently we wrote a post on 10 things we love about living in Germany. One of the 10 was German Architecture. Today we would like to focus a bit more on this subject and show some photos that Mohammed took of our favourite German city: Celle.

We drove to Celle early one Sunday morning, spent time walking around and just really looking at the buildings in the city centre area. There were only a few tourists around looking with big eyes and open mouths at the buildings. Observing them I realised how often we take our surroundings for granted, when was the last time you stopped and really looked around the place where you are?

It was wonderful to look around with fresh eyes, really noticing every detail. There is so much in Celle to discover! One blog post on it will never be enough!

There was some information we already knew about Celle but then we accidentally met two lovely ladies who told us a lot about their city. They both live there and are really proud of their city.

Celle is a Royal city. It has a castle, sadly we couldn´t take any photos of it as it is covered in scaffolding at the moment, but as soon as we can I shall post photos of it. Ancestors of the British Royal Family come from here and lived in this castle.

So here are some of the photos we took and some really interesting information!

I love the painted decorations on the houses. The colours are fantastic and what is written on many of the houses is very moving. Most of them have the name of the original owners, when the house was built, and something about them or the hopes they had for their new home, others have written on them a verse from the Bible or a short prayer or petition to God, like Bless this home and it´s inhabitants.

Others have funny comments like it is not possible to be happy if your neighbour doesn´t like it or doesn´t like you.

But usually there is something written about God or asking God for His blessing and protection.

 

 

 

One thing that I didn´t know and was told to us by the two lovely ladies, is that these decorations on top of the houses, contain the original architectural plans for the house, inside that golden ball. So that if ever there was a fire for example, then the plans for the house would be safe and the house could be rebuilt again. Amazing and truly clever!

 

 

This one I already knew! Those thick pieces of wood sticking out of the top of the houses were used to lift goods, with the help of a rope and pulley, into the houses and pulled in through those little doors, like in the photo here above.

Goods were stored in the loft of the houses, like for example large quantities of flour for the winter, or in the case of shop owners, a tailor for example, the fabric for his work would be lifted up and pulled into the house to be stored in the loft.

This one  is really interesting! If you look carefully at the above photo, you will see that it is two 1\2 houses. Originally the two halves were planned by the architect as one house, but the sisters who were going to build it and live together had a major disagreement so the house was literally cut in half, with no extra money or resources, the house was built in two halves, with a piece of ground in between, with the two halves in opposing direction to each other.

  

One of the things I really like about Celle is the fantastic window boxes that hang from the windows. The Geraniums look so wonderful and they make the houses look even more attractive!

Yes, that is my lovely feet there! but that is not the interesting thing. The interesting thing is the stone road. These stone roads, or cobbled roads, are protected and I can see why, they have a lovely pattern to them and are in amazingly good condition. I really enjoy them even if they are uneven! No high heels girls!

         

The photos above show the old Rathaus (or council offices) and the tower from the main church in the city. The view is lovely.

And the last photo is to make you laugh a bit! Here I am looking into the window of one of my favourite shops, Mohammed took the photo and then showed it to me saying: “here I am working and what is she doing? shop window shopping!” and he laughed a lot.

Celle is a truly amazing and wonderful city, it looks amazing with the Christmas market there. I promise I shall write a post before Christmas with photos of Celle on the run up to Christmas and the Christmas market.

Until then we would like to say that we had an amazing day rediscovering Celle and spending time together. I think this was the most important part of the day, the spending time together. We highly recommend rediscovering your surroundings with friends or loved ones or with your husband or wife. Building good memories is the secret to growing strong relationships and a happy life.

Mohammed & Beatriz

All written content and photographs are the property of Beatriz Custodio and Mohammed Al Ali.

© 2018 Mohammed Al Ali & Beatriz Custodio